Owesilisa unqume umlenze owodwa womkakhe ngemuva kokumthola elele nomfana

Owesilisa oneminyaka engu-35 ubudala unqume umlenze owodwa womkakhe ngemuva kokumthola elele nomfana

Owesilisa oneminyaka engu-35 ubudala uboshiwe kulandela isigameko esishaqisayo okusolwa ukuthi uhlasele unkosikazi wakhe ngemuva kokumthola nomfana egumbini labo lokulala. Isenzo salo mlisa sishiye umphakathi uphazamisekile futhi ukhathazeke kakhulu ngezimo eziholele kulesi sigameko esinodlame.

Ngokwemibiko yokuqala lomlisa wabuyela ekhaya lakhe kungazelelwe wafica unkosikazi wakhe esembhedeni nomfana. Kubikwa ukuthi ukubona umkakhe elele nomunye umuntu kwavusa ulaka olungalawuleki. Kusashisa bhe, lo mlisa kuthiwa usebenzise into ecijile ukushaya unkosikazi wakhe nokwaholela ekutheni aphuke umlenze owodwa. Ibhungu elithintekayo kuthiwa likwazile ukuphunyuka lingenamyocu.

Iziphathimandla zibikelwe endaweni yesigameko ngomakhelwane abezwe umsindo. Lapho befika bathola owesifazane owayelimele base bebiza usizo lwezempilo ngokushesha. Uphuthunyiswe esibhedlela esiseduze, lapho elashelwa khona ukulimala kwakhe. .  

Umsolwa uboshwe khona lapho kanti usethweswe icala lokushaya nokulimaza kanzima. Abaphenyi basebenzela ukuqonda izehlakalo eziholela kulesi sigameko, kanye namandla angaphakathi ekhaya. Ongoti bezomthetho baveze ukuthi ukuqina kwamacala kungase kuholele ekutheni agwetshwe isikhathi eside ejele uma elahlwa yicala.  

Lesi sigameko sisuse izingxoxo ezisabalele ngokubaluleka kokubhekana nokulawulwa kwentukuthelo nokuxazulula izingxabano ebudlelwaneni. Abaholi bomphakathi banxuse izithandani ukuthi zifune usizo lochwepheshe uma zibhekene nezinkinga zomshado kunokuthi zibe nodlame. 

 

Osonhlalakahle nabo babambe iqhaza ekunikezeni izeluleko emndenini nakwabanye abathintekile kulesi sigameko. Bagcizelela isidingo sokudala indawo ephephile yezisulu zezingxabano zasekhaya kanye nokuqinisekisa ukuthi kunezinhlelo zokweseka ezifanele.

Njengoba kuqhubeka inqubo yezomthetho, umphakathi usahlukene phakathi ngendlela osabela ngayo kuleli cala. Nakuba abanye bezwelana nemizwa yendoda yokukhashelwa, abaningi bazigxeka ngokuqinile izenzo zayo zobudlova, begcizelela ukuthi asikho isimo esithethelela ukusabela okweqile kangako.  

Lesi sigameko sisebenza njengesikhumbuzo esiqinile sesidingo sokuxhumana okunempilo nokuzibamba ekuxazululeni izingxabano zomuntu siqu. Iphinde igqamise udaba olubanzi lwenhlalo yodlame lwasekhaya, icela imizamo ehlangene yokuvimbela izinhlekelele ezifanayo esikhathini esizayo.

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